Dear to his future girl,
I just want you to know that he’s very stubborn. But he’s such a sweet heart. He’ll do anything for you. He doesn’t care for his happiness but the difference between him and I was that I cared a lot for his happiness then for mine. If you want something from him then you should ask. He’ll give it to you if he’s able to. He’s not a mind reader so you should tell him if something bothers you or if you feel like there’s something wrong. He’s very open minded and he’ll hear you out and he’ll help you get through it. He loves eating chicken. He hates pickles but he doesn’t mind eating cucumbers. He hates cabbage, don’t try giving him cabbage cause he’ll refuse it. I finally got him to like lettuce, he doesn’t mind lettuce, only once in awhile. When he asks you to wake him up after his nap, call him and wake him up. It’ll be easier. And I promise you once he picks up he’ll beg for another 5 min nap, but I usually give him an extra 10 which he appreciates a lot. He loves going to the gym. He calls it his man cave. He goes every day for at least 2-3 hours. He usually goes at night around 10 cause there are less people at night. But if he has work at night then he’ll go in the evening before work. He goes to the gym every day besides one day which is his rest day. Him and his family don’t get along often but he still loves them to death. His moms happiness is what he lives for and he’ll do anything in his power to make his dad proud. He likes to watch Netflix if there’s nothing to do. He likes to paint and draw on his free time. He’s an amazing artist even if he thinks he’s okay. If you want him to draw something for you, just ask and he’ll be gladly to draw something for you. I’m pretty sure if he likes you that means he loves talking to you. Be talkative. He likes someone that’s able to hold a good conversation. He likes to cook also! If he’s able to then he’ll give you some of what he cooks. If you’re able to cook with him, you should help him with the little things such as getting plates or putting noodles in the pot for him or just help him when he needs a hand. He likes to make sushi as well. He’s just an amazing cook in general. You’re so lucky to be able to eat his food. He also loves his car very much. But if he really really likes you, he’ll put his car second and you first, just like what he did for me. But if you’re in his car, make sure to be careful and don’t make a mess. If you do, clean up after yourself. If you ask him to drive his car and he says yes, that means he really does trust you. He’s open to trying new things such as restaurants to eat out at. We had this thing where every weekend we would suggest a different restaurant that one another haven’t tried and we would go there but we eventually got too busy to try new things every weekend but he really does enjoy trying new things. He enjoys listening to “black” music, such as listening to Drake, The Weeknd, Juicy J, which is one of his favorites, J Cole and he also likes SoMo, there’s many more. even tho he likes black music, there’s also a side of him that enjoys country music. Not hill billy kinds but he really likes Luke Bryan. He likes to wear tank tops to the gym to work out in. I was iffy about him wearing tanks cause I would be scared that a girl would notice how strong and swole he is. I hope you don’t mind him wearing tanks compared to how I was. He hates his laugh but I thought it was so cute, he likes to laugh a lot. Make him laugh and he’ll appreciate it a lot. He likes to collect shoes. He’s a size 10 if you’re thinking about getting him shoes. Especially Vans and roshes. If he hears a car that zooms by and their exhaust sounds nice he’ll turn his head quick to see what car it is and say “ooooooo I like it” but when it sounds ugly he’ll be like “ew nah”. He likes to be called handsome. Which no doubt he is. Him and his dad look so much alike. But he’ll deny it cause he’s mixed with laos and Viet. And his dad isn’t. Hahah. He likes to make up funny puns. Laugh. Even if you don’t think they’re funny. I personally think they’re funny. Don’t be scared to talk things out with him. He might get frustrated sometimes but don’t be scared. It’ll be over with once y’all compromise. I have high hopes for him especially for his future. Don’t ever doubt him. Support him in everything he does. Be supportive. He’ll admire you. I’m pretty sure whoever you are, you’re probably amazing to him. You’re a lucky girl. I’m trusting you to be able to keep him happy. Once you see his smile and hear his laugh, you’ll get addicted to keeping him happy. Please take good care of him. He means a lot to me. Hopefully him and I will be able to work things out but for now, whoever you are, I’m really excited to see how happy he’ll make you. You’re so lucky. Love him and cherish him. He’s one of a kind.